"I cheated on my boyfriend of seven years. He still has no idea and I can't stomach the thought of telling him. We’ve been seeing each other for 9 months and I know that’s terrible, I know. I love him more than anything but this guy at my job gives me butterflies. He listens to me and loves my company.  My boyfriend met him a few weeks ago at a work party and I felt awful. The guy I’ve been seeing is divorced. He tells me all the time that he can see a future with me and hearing that confuses the future I was already building with my boyfriend. I have no idea how to handle this or how it will turn out, but I can’t imagine my life without my boyfriend, and I certainly can’t imagine my life without a job. I’ve tried to end it a few times and he always somehow ends up right back into my messages. I worry my boyfriend will find out and leave me. He has every right to, but how do I even fix this? I can't really tell anyone because they'll hate me for it. Everyone loves my boyfriend and knows what a good man he is. He doesn’t deserve me at all and I’m aware of that, but I have no idea what to do or where to start to fix this. I’ve tried several times to end it, but he keeps coming back. I know I’m not the only person who’s been in this position I just wish it never got here. - Anonymous